Learn five things before you fly: xin chào (hello), cảm ơn (thank you), anh ơi or chị ơi (excuse me, to get attention), bao nhiêu tiền? (how much), and không (no). That is the greeting, the thanks, the summons, the price and the refusal — most of what a traveler says aloud in Vietnam.
Underneath them sits the thing most phrasebooks skip: Vietnamese has no neutral word for "you". Every sentence forces a choice about who the other person is relative to you. Get it roughly right and the rest lands warmer than your vocabulary deserves.
The five phrases that matter most
| Vietnamese | Sounds like | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Xin chào | sin chow | Hello |
| Cảm ơn | kahm uhn | Thank you |
| Anh ơi / Chị ơi | ahn oy / chee oy | Excuse me (man / woman) |
| Bao nhiêu tiền? | bao nyew tee-en | How much is it? |
| Không | khome | No, not |
The pronoun problem, and why it comes first
English has one word for the person you are addressing. Vietnamese has about a dozen, all family words extended to strangers — older brother, aunt, uncle, grandmother. You pick by apparent age and gender relative to your own, and your word for "I" changes to match. A neutral tôi exists, but leaning on it sounds stiff.
| Term | Sounds like | Who it is for |
|---|---|---|
| em | em | Anyone clearly younger, most young staff |
| anh | ahn | A man your age or a little older |
| chị | chee | A woman your age or a little older |
| cô | koh | A woman around your parents' age |
| chú | choo | A man around your parents' age |
| bác | bahk | Anyone older than your parents |
| ông | ohm | An elderly man |
| bà | bah | An elderly woman |
| cháu | chow | "I" to a cô, chú, bác, ông or bà |
| tôi | toy | Neutral "I" — safe but distant |
Two rules make this manageable. Reciprocity: call someone anh or chị and you are em; call them cô, chú or bác and you are cháu. Recovery: guess, then listen to the term they use back and switch. If you say cô and she calls you em, she would rather be chị. Usage varies by household and region, so treat this as the common pattern — and erring older is safer past about forty.
Greetings and getting someone's attention
The workhorse is ơi. Attach it to a kinship term and you have the Vietnamese way of flagging someone down: em ơi to a young server, chị ơi to a stallholder. Friendly, not impolite.
| Vietnamese | Sounds like | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Xin chào | sin chow | Hello (polite, universal) |
| Chào anh / Chào chị | chow ahn / chow chee | Hello (man / woman) |
| Anh ơi / Chị ơi / Em ơi | ahn oy / chee oy / em oy | Excuse me — hailing someone |
| Anh khỏe không? | ahn kwair khome | How are you? |
| Tạm biệt | tahm bee-et | Goodbye |
Thank you, please and sorry
| Vietnamese | Sounds like | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Cảm ơn | kahm uhn | Thank you |
| Không có gì | khome kaw zee | You're welcome |
| Làm ơn | lahm uhn | Please |
| Xin lỗi | sin loy | Sorry / excuse me |
| Dạ | yah (S) / zah (N) | Polite yes, respectful "mm-hmm" |
| Có / Không | kaw / khome | Yes / no |
Làm ơn is rarer than English "please": politeness rides on the kinship term and the sentence-final ạ instead. Dạ opening an answer to anyone older does more social work than any other syllable.
Numbers, money and the missing thousand
Numbers one to ten: một (moat), hai (hi), ba (bah), bốn (bone), năm (nam), sáu (sao), bảy (buy), tám (tahm), chín (cheen), mười (muh-uh-ee).
The trap is the shorthand. Notes run to 500,000 dong, so vendors drop the word for thousand: hai mươi means twenty and almost certainly means 20,000. Thousand is nghìn in the north, ngàn in the south; million is triệu. Assume any bare small number at a stall is thousands, and ask the vendor to key it into a phone if unsure. Our card versus cash guide covers how much to carry.
| Vietnamese | Sounds like | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Bao nhiêu tiền? | bao nyew tee-en | How much? |
| Một trăm nghìn | moat chum ngin | 100,000 dong |
| Một triệu | moat chee-oh | One million |
| Tiền lẻ | tee-en leh | Small change |
| Đắt quá / Mắc quá | daht kwah / mahk kwah | Too expensive (N / S) |
Ordering food, including allergies and dietary limits
Vietnamese kitchens season hard and assume fish sauce, so instruct before the food is cooked, not after.
| Vietnamese | Sounds like | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Cho tôi cái này | chaw toy kai nai | I'll have this |
| Tôi ăn chay | toy an chai | I'm vegetarian |
| Tôi không ăn thịt | toy khome an tit | I don't eat meat |
| Không cho nước mắm | khome chaw nuck mum | No fish sauce |
| Không cay | khome kai | Not spicy |
| Tôi bị dị ứng với đậu phộng | toy bee zee ung vuh-ee dow fung | Allergic to peanuts |
| Tôi bị dị ứng với hải sản | toy bee zee ung vuh-ee high sahn | Allergic to seafood |
| Ngon quá | ngon kwah | Delicious |
| Tính tiền | ting tee-en | The bill |
| Một, hai, ba, dzô | moat hi ba, yo | Cheers (a toast) |
Three caveats. Ăn chay reads as Buddhist vegetarian, so places signed chay are the reliable option — broths elsewhere are often meat- or fish-based even when the visible ingredients are not. Peanut is đậu phộng in the south, lạc in the north. For a severe allergy, carry a written card in Vietnamese too. Our food guide covers what to order; is street food safe covers the stall.
Directions and transport
| Vietnamese | Sounds like | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| ...ở đâu? | uh dow | Where is...? |
| Nhà vệ sinh ở đâu? | nyah veh sing uh dow | Where's the toilet? |
| Đi thẳng | dee tahng | Go straight |
| Rẽ trái / Quẹo trái | zeh chai / kweo chai | Turn left (N / S) |
| Rẽ phải / Quẹo phải | zeh fai / kweo fai | Turn right (N / S) |
| Dừng ở đây | zung uh day | Stop here |
| Cho tôi xuống đây | chaw toy soong day | Let me off here |
| Bật đồng hồ nhé | but dome haw nyeh | Turn the meter on |
Memorise the last one before your first taxi: showing you know the meter exists is the cheapest scam deterrent going. See hidden costs and scams and the first 24 hours.
Shopping and bargaining
| Vietnamese | Sounds like | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Giảm giá được không? | zahm zah duhk khome | Lower the price? |
| Bớt chút được không? | but choot duhk khome | Take a little off? |
| Tôi chỉ xem thôi | toy chee sem toy | Just looking |
| Không, cảm ơn | khome, kahm uhn | No thanks |
Bargain at market stalls and street vendors; do not bother in supermarkets, malls or restaurants with printed menus. Tone beats wording — a smile and đắt quá outperform a hard number.
Emergencies and the pharmacy
Pharmacies — nhà thuốc, green cross — are dense in Vietnamese cities, and staff often dispense directly for minor complaints. Name the symptom rather than a drug.
| Vietnamese | Sounds like | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Giúp tôi với | zoop toy vuh-ee | Help me |
| Gọi bác sĩ | goy bahk see | Call a doctor |
| Gọi công an | goy kome ahn | Call the police |
| Bệnh viện | ben vee-en | Hospital |
| Nhà thuốc | nyah twok | Pharmacy |
| Tôi bị đau bụng | toy bee dow boom | Stomach ache |
| Thuốc giảm đau | twok zahm dow | Painkiller |
Polite fillers that soften everything
These make a beginner sound considerate rather than blunt. Ạ closing a sentence is the highest-value syllable a visitor can add: cảm ơn ạ lands warmer than cảm ơn.
| Vietnamese | Sounds like | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| ...ạ | ah | Sentence-final politeness particle |
| ...nhé | nyeh | Friendly softener, "okay?" |
| Tôi không hiểu | toy khome hyew | I don't understand |
| Nói chậm lại được không? | noy chum lai duhk khome | Speak more slowly? |
| Anh nói tiếng Anh được không? | ahn noy tyeng ahn duhk khome | Speak English? |
| Không sao | khome sao | It's fine |
What the tones actually do
Vietnamese is tonal. The northern standard distinguishes six tones — ngang (level), huyền (low falling), sắc (rising), nặng (low, cut short), hỏi (dipping) and ngã (rising with a throat catch) — and tone is part of the word, not decoration. Southern Vietnamese merges hỏi and ngã, running on five in practice, per the Wikipedia summary of Vietnamese phonology.
So the "sounds like" column approximates consonants and vowels only. No English respelling encodes tone. Use it for the shape, then copy the melody from a native speaker. The Wikivoyage Vietnamese phrasebook is a good free companion.
Limitations
Tones cannot be learned from a page. Every hint here approximates consonants and vowels in English spelling and drops tone, the part that changes meaning. If a phrase is not understood, tone is the likeliest culprit.
Regional variation is real and this guide leans northern. Southern variants are flagged where they diverge materially (quẹo against rẽ, ngàn against nghìn, mắc against đắt, đậu phộng against lạc). Central Vietnamese, especially around Hue, differs further and is widely considered hardest for outsiders.
Kinship-term guidance is a convention, not a law. Age-based address varies by family, region and setting, and edge cases — a young manager, someone ambiguous in age, a formal meeting — resolve poorly from a table. When unsure, xin chào with no term attached plus a neutral tôi is safe, if formal.
Medical phrasing has hard limits. A spoken phrase is no substitute for a written allergy card in Vietnamese, and pharmacy staff may not read English drug names. Beyond a stomach ache, use a hospital with an international department. See our trip planning checklist.

